Cheating

Last edited: May 28, 2025, 9:50 PM

Pulling Back

In this conversation, Thor notices that I’ve been distant. I express my insecurities about my adequacy.

Roleplaying

I mention that I have been roleplaying with another person.

Keep in mind at this point in time, Thor is married to his wife and also has a committed relationship with Shaye, and also lives with both of them.

Thor will fixate on the fact that Lyric roleplayed with his friend.

In this conversation, Thor conflates roleplaying with real-life sex and acuses Lyric of cheating on him.

Thor will later weaponize this admission to impose guilt on Lyric in Not Taking No for an Answer: Thor Says Close Friends Aren’t Real.

Shaming

Thor shames Lyric for roleplaying, treating them like filth and accusing them of cheating on him.

For further reading on shame as a tool for abuse, see the article on Shame.

Tue, Sep 25, 2018

You ignored my advances and erp'd with other dudes. Not much else to say there.

10:58 AM

To be real, this is fucked up.

10:59 AM

Like, I have no idea if you even realize how fucked up it is to me.

10:59 AM

We even have plans to meet up irl in like a month.

11:02 AM

This is the reason I don't date people. Can't stop yourself from fucking around for five minutes. I was literally here every night trying to get affection from you while you were fucking somebody else.

11:05 AM

Yeah it fucking is how it is. You replied to me "when you could" but you had time to erp with others?

11:06 AM

I don't know how many others you think there were, but there was 1. And I don't think you know how many times I did it and it was 2.

11:07 AM

Neat, mines 0 and fucking 0 because I told you I was into you and had mutual plans with you to express that in person.

11:08 AM

protip: foundations dont include fucking other people

11:10 AM

I super don't trust you after this little sidequest so what do you want?

11:18 AM

No like, I don't trust you. You did something really fucking messed up here.

11:19 AM

You could have just come to me any fucking time and been like yo I'm turned on right now.

11:20 AM

It was when you were asleep, to be fair our sleep schedules don't exactly align.

11:20 AM

Who gives a fuck if I was asleep

11:20 AM

"Sorry I fucked someone else but you were asleep at the time so."

11:21 AM

After conflating roleplaying with real-life sex, Thor accuses Lyric of cheating.

Tue, Sep 25, 2018

No, right now I'm super not. You broke my trust and showed me you couldeasily just cheat on me on a whim.

11:32 AM

Transcript

The following transcript has incomplete annotations, and not all hostile behaviors will be called out.