Love bombing can be described as intense displays of affection and declarations of love early in the relationship. This rapid progression can be overwhelming and make it difficult to see potential red flags.
For abusers, love bombing can be the first phase of a cycle of abuse, and is often followed by periods of devaluation and shame. The abuser may switch from intense affection to criticism, control, and even emotional abuse.
From the abuser’s perspective, love bombing is an investment: it is a way to establish rapport, and can be later cashed out in the form of compliance, submission, and control.
The primary purpose of this article is to contrast with Thor’s demeanor in the Final Conversation, where he attempts to deny any advances toward Lyric:
Early on, Thor would establish a pattern of emotional dependence, seeming to mirror Lyric’s desires and emphasize them.
Thor also expects the same dedication from Lyric, conveying his emotional dependence on them.
Thor would show unconditional support for Lyric. This is a very weird statement for a 31-year-old to make to a 20-year-old:
Thor would use pet names to establish a sense of intimacy and attachment. He would also use them to praise Lyric’s submission.
Thor will often compliment Lyric for their submission, and reward them with praise for agreeing with him.
Thor really looks forward to meeting Lyric, expressing his excitement and even counting down the days until they meet.